There is sadness and loss at Funeral and Memorial Services, because someone loved has passed.
There can also be a celebration of a life lived. Of the joy they brought, of the achievements and the relationships. There can be points in the Service where there is a time to smile and even laugh. There can be funny memories, quirky habits or perhaps they had a good sense of humor or enjoyed playing jokes ....
Sometimes using humor to explore just "who this person really was" can really celebrate their life and create a very memorable occasion that honors their life. It can be a funny story, an anecdote, a quote, even foibles. There will be many attending who will connect and relate and smile and maybe even laugh, maybe loud!
A life can be long and short. Any life has so much crammed in that it is a shame not to honor a life lived, at this special time. We are complex people with so many parts and a Eulogy can explore many. Humor is a good way to explore.
No problems. There are countless funny stories, jokes, quotes already available in books, magazines and the Internet. All you need to do is appropriately and respectfully adapt them.
I do mean any humor other than eulogy humor. A life lived is complex and full of living and in there are opportunities to find good stories and funny ways easily incorporated into this memorable occasion.
Now you can easily select appropriate humor in minutes, change, adapt and adjust the humor and create a Eulogy that will be well regarded and appreciated by all who are there, easily, regardless of how good a speaker you are, regardless of who is in your audience, or where you are giving your Eulogy.
Regardless of whether you are giving a Eulogy, or you are talking to family and friends before or after a Service, humor will help celebrate this memorable occasion and make this time easier.
This Quick Guide eBook can show you how.
Written from my personal experience of presenting at all sorts of speaking occasions and from Eulogies I have given.
Everything is tested and proven.
Whether you think you are a good speaker or not, humor will really help your Eulogy. In fact, regardless of how well you think you speak, humor will create a very memorable and successful celebration of an important life.
I have witnessed people who stumble over their words, but with a sprinkling of humor, they have an enormous impact on the entire celebration as the smiles and laughter create a connecting atmosphere and builds relationships between everyone present.
Humor helps even when just talking before and after the Service.
Humor can make the difference!
This Quick Guide will show you how.
In fact this Quick Guide will help you not just now, but in the future as well with all the other Speeches you will ever give.
You do not need to be a comedian. You do not need to have a Degree, a Diploma, a
Certificate or any fancy qualification to add a bit of humor to your
You do not need to be a wit, or a comic to add a bit of humor.
You do not even need fancy jokes.
you need is a source of jokes and humor, and a way to adapt them to
this audience, for this person and to know how to effectively deliver the humor for best effect.
This Quick Guide will do this.
Link you to sources of selected humor and show you how to adapt them and deliver.
This is a Quick Guide, designed for busy people or when time is short.
this Guide to think about this celebration in a structured
way, and to help you SELECT appropriate humor, and then ADAPT it to your
audience. A few words with appropriate humor can be put together using
this Quick Guide very quickly.
Obviously, the more time you have the better, but I have used concepts in this Quick Guide to prepare for a Speech with minutes to go when the original speaker called in ill.
This Guide is born from actual lived experiences of giving humorous speeches for all sorts of occasions.
Whether your speech is next month, next week, tomorrow or even today, this Quick Guide will quickly get you started in the right direction of adding humor to this important occasion and possibly creating the ambience for the entire celebration.
In fact I have used the ideas in this Quick Guide to add humor to a Speech when I was asked to say a few words with only minutes to go. "Wow, yes OK I'll say a few words."
Off I went thinking quickly about this audience and the person, selecting and adjusting some humor that would be suitable. If I don't mind saying, my speech and the humor were very well received.
I don't wish this on you, but you will become quite adept at selecting and using appropriate humor for the occasion. Best of all is how your speech flows into the celebration, wow.
With more time you can use my resources in this Quick Guide to carefully browse and select appropriate humor.
Whether male or female, whether 10 years or 100 years old or more, humor breaks down barriers and connects you, regardless of age.
Whether it is a workplace, a family celebration, or even military deployed overseas, in fact for any audience, this Quick Guide will equip you.
Whether you are inside, outside, in the air or on the water, or on a mountain, this Quick Guide will help you.
Through this Quick Guide, you will gain the confidence that your words and humor will be appropriate.
It can be like this.
You feel confident as you stand to speak. The preparation has calmed you and you know what you are going to say. As you speak there is a smile, then a giggle, and laughter. As you look at those gathered, they are smiling and you feel a connection with them. They are enjoying your words as your humor connects memories. You are contributing to this important occasion.
Would you like to feel like that? It is entirely possible with this Quick Guide. A few minutes thinking about your audience and learning how to select appropriate humor, and how to adjust that humor for this very special occasion.
imagine, searching for and finding appropriate humor and then adjusting
it to make it really fit this occasion and those who will be gathered. Making it
Imagine how that will be received.
Your humor can:
Where ever you are, adding some humor will definitely enrich this special occasion.
Or Is This You?
You feel trepidation? or maybe even fearful?
You just cannot picture yourself engaging an audience and in particular people laughing at your words.
And the last thing you want is for anyone to be disappointed after your eulogy.
we don't want you to finish your eulogy and then be disappointed by
your words, simply because you didn't take the time to explore options
and see the easy ways to use humor.
This Guide has been created for you and is born from years of experience.
Years ago, I was there. I felt that trepidation, felt that hesitance, and the use of a little humor made all the difference and also helped me overcome my nerves and my ability to speak.
Born from what I have learnt and my experience since, this Quick Guide will help you too, to feel more confident about giving this eulogy. The descriptions and practical how-to examples and scenarios will actively assist you to implement every idea. Those gathered will really appreciate those few minutes of your preparation.
It is focused on HOW to FIND, SELECT and USE appropriate humor, and is jam packed with everything you need and much more.
Not just ...
How to FIND and SELECT appropriate humorBut also ...
How to ADJUST and ADAPT your humor for this Audience and even for the Venue
And also ..
Understand what exactly is humor
Exactly WHY humor is good for your speech and
HOW to use it
Understand your audience and remove any fear of speaking to them
How to engage with your audience
How to present and speak your words.
Where is the BEST PLACE to locate your humor in your speech,
How to BEST USE your humor and the
Incredible SPARK that comes from being spontaneous.
A BONUS ...
How to quickly build a relationship with all who are gathered and even strangers, so they are there with you.
AND ANOTHER BONUS ...
All the humor resources (books) I use for my speeches plus
My extensive collection of humor, jokes, short stories and one-lines that I actually use.
and much much more .....
from my many years of giving speeches at work and for family.
A Very Special Secret
PLUS there is a very special secret that will be invaluable EVERY time to speak from now on and especially on this occasion.
I often get comments from
my readers who have just given a EULOGY about how they wished
their WORDS had been - more humorous, more relevant for those who had
gathered, more engaging, better written .... and the list goes on.
tiny bit of thinking before you give your Eulogy will better place you to feel assured of your words and you will be WELL
REWARDED. You will be rewarded even if your speech is to be given
Don't go to all the expense and trouble of creating a eulogy and then when it's over say to yourself, "If only I had thought of THAT".
While I don't guarantee my Quick Guide will help you think of
every detail, I do promise it will help you to cover the bases by giving
you the absolute best start to adding humor in the best way possible, respectfully.
In fact there is nothing else
anywhere that can assist you with selecting and using appropriate humor
in a eulogy and then how to deliver it, that has been written straight from the author's
experience like this Quick Guide.
Created from the experience of actually writing and delivering numerous speeches and eulogies for many different settings for family and friends and in the workplace as a Team Leader, Manager and Director, and for family and friends over many years. I have had weeks to get ready sometimes and on several occasions, just minutes, when the boss was detained or away.
I was asked because I was able to give a speech which honored the person or the occasion, and was spoken with humor. People laughed and enjoyed my words, as they often commented to me afterwards.
These ideas work!
They certainly do!
These ideas are tested and proven with many different and varied audiences over many years.
“The special value is that this is not based on theory but on Warren's actual experience" ~ Neil
see everyday speech challenges solved in the case studies and examples:
what is humor and how can I use it? where do I find it? how can it be
made relevant? how can humor connect me with those who have gathered? How can I leave them smiling?
you are a great speaker or not, this Quick Guide will show you how to
add to your Eulogy, and you and everyone will
enjoy this important celebration.
Your audience will leave with great memories ...
Additionally, the many ideas in the Guide can be used again and again for the many different speaking occasions that may arise for you, not just this occasion. It's an investment.
How to Build Relationships with Your Audience.
Here are shared my favourite ways to connect with your audience. Invaluable to you on all sorts of occasions, because as you connect, you are more assured of getting your message across.
To save you time ...
A website where I am placing Humor
Just for you. A growing resource of suitable humor that I use, so you don't have to search any where else.
This will save you hours!
Full list of all the humorous resources that I use.
This is invaluable. Also my favourite places to find them. You will be surprised how easy it is and how valuable it will become for you.
Which is hardly ever written about. But knowing this will have a really big impact on your audiences in the future, whether large, small or one-to-one.
Immediately after your purchase, you can download your eBook (which includes all bonuses) and dig into these ideas to quickly add appropriate humor to your eulogy.
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